only kind of friends with (you liar they’re probably in the other three categories but whatever)
if you text them and they do not text you back, you have ONE SHOT
in 45 min to 1 hour you can text them something that makes the situation seem urgent-ish (but not too urgent) like “i think we might be leaving soon, are you coming?”
if they do not respond to this YOU’RE DONE
you do not text “?” you do not text “…” you do not text “ok then” and you absolutely do not send any emoticons.
GAME OVER DIE ALONE.
Not only is “game over die alone” now my new favorite thing to say, but this is 1000% truth. Technology has made it way too easy to look desperate.
Here is a very powerful insight: see EVERYTHING that happens in your life as being for your best interest.
Anything that annoys you is “for” teaching you patience.
Anyone who abandons you is “for” teaching you how to stand up on your own two feet.
Anything that angers you is “for” teaching you forgiveness and compassion.
Anything that has power over you is “for” teaching you how to take your power back.
Anything you hate is “for” teaching you unconditional love.
Anything you fear is “for” teaching you courage to overcome your fear.
Anything you can’t control is “for” teaching you how to let go and trust the Universe.
This life has an infinite number of potentials for you; we live in a made to order Universe. Whatever you believe is possible for you and take consistent action upon is what becomes your reality. If you keep telling yourself that your dream isn’t possible, you will come to find that you are absolutely right.
But my friend, if you draw a line in the sand and tell the Universe that your dreams are a reality RIGHT NOW, and take action as if that were the case, you will come to find that you are absolutely right. The question is how long can you live in the fire of your dreams manifestation?
The price you have to pay to live your dream is facing your deepest darkest fear and the reward you receive from this courageous act is the realization that your fear was an illusion and that your dreams were always real.
So I ask you, my friend, are you willing to go there? Are you willing to sit in fire and sacrifice the comfort of your known world for the potential of something amazing, new and unknown? Don’t you want to find out what’s on the other side of your fear?
Living in fear is so last season, if you want to be happy and really live your dream you have to take a stand and just put yourself out there. You might fail, yes indeed - but, you might, you just might succeed too! Don’t you want to find out? Either way your life will never be the same… Can you handle it?
P.s. I also need to step away from my computer IMMEDIATELY and refrain from sending any more awkward facebook messages that I can’t unsend. Seriously, what is wrong with me??? Apparantly this is why everyone says it’s a bad idea to be “facebook friends” with any of your ex’s/guys you’ve dated/hooked up with.