only kind of friends with (you liar they’re probably in the other three categories but whatever)
if you text them and they do not text you back, you have ONE SHOT
in 45 min to 1 hour you can text them something that makes the situation seem urgent-ish (but not too urgent) like “i think we might be leaving soon, are you coming?”
if they do not respond to this YOU’RE DONE
you do not text “?” you do not text “…” you do not text “ok then” and you absolutely do not send any emoticons.
GAME OVER DIE ALONE.
Not only is “game over die alone” now my new favorite thing to say, but this is 1000% truth. Technology has made it way too easy to look desperate.
Here is a very powerful insight: see EVERYTHING that happens in your life as being for your best interest.
Anything that annoys you is “for” teaching you patience.
Anyone who abandons you is “for” teaching you how to stand up on your own two feet.
Anything that angers you is “for” teaching you forgiveness and compassion.
Anything that has power over you is “for” teaching you how to take your power back.
Anything you hate is “for” teaching you unconditional love.
Anything you fear is “for” teaching you courage to overcome your fear.
Anything you can’t control is “for” teaching you how to let go and trust the Universe.